So I have been tasked with writing a blog post about our
trip to Duluth for my good friend Dan’s wedding. So here we go….
Ever since we had kid number three
we have tried to have special alone time with each kid. Now that we have four
with a fifth on the way that becomes harder and harder. Last year for her
birthday Annie got to go on a girl’s only trip to Minneapolis with Mommy,
Grammy, and Aunt Nikki. So Amber and I both felt like Elias should eventually
have something similar. The problem was always time and money. When I found out
that my friend Dan was getting married in Duluth we thought that we would all
go. The logistics of this trip would have been difficult so we decided that I
would just go with Elias and Uncle Jordan. Finally a guy’s trip!
Elias has always had a special
place in my heart. He is my oldest and he is my guy. We share similar interests
and he is so sweet, not a cruel bone in that boy’s body. That being said I will
admit that he is also the easiest to overlook. He is seven now and requires
much less attention than the little boys for day to day life. He is also very
much content not being the center of attention (unlike his sister). That is why
it is so important to go out of our way to have special time with Elias. This
guy’s trip provided a nice reprieve from real world stressors and distractions.
It was a perfect mini vacation.
The trip started off with the car
ride down there leaving Friday morning. It was about a five hour drive so I
knew we had to be prepared to entertain a seven year old. Lately Elias has been
obsessed with Star Wars. Up until this point that has been limited to Lego Star
Wars and Cartoons. This has been enough to satiate his galactic desires but he
knew about the movies but always assumed that he would have to wait until he
was older. Since this is a guy’s trip I decided to allow him to experience an
adventure that took place a long time ago in a galaxy far far away. We loaded
all the Star Wars movies onto the iPad and let him watch them in the car. He
got to watch episode I, IV, and VI. These were the all rated PG and were the
most kid friendly. I have never seem him in such bliss. Also we hooked up the
sound through the speakers in the car so Jordan and I were also entertained.
Mom editor Note: THIS MOVIE WATCHING WAS NOT APPROVED BY MOM!!!!!
We arrived at our destination in
the late afternoon and immediately went to the Great Lake Aquarium. It was much
nicer than I thought it would be and had lots of awesome things for Elias to
explore. His favorite part was a working model of the lock system on the lake
complete with water and toy boats. He also loved the Otter exhibit. Before we
left Elias made sure to pick out a present for his siblings (such a considerate
boy).










We then went to our hotel. Our
hotel had a waterpark that was attached and included two four story pitch black
water slides. So needless to say Elias was excited. First we ordered greasy
pizza, fries, cheese curds and dippin dots for a nutritious dinner in our room.
Guy trip means eating like a bachelor again. We did not have wait the mandatory
hour before swimming. Elias was so excited when he realized that he was tall
enough to go down the slide. He went down the slide over and over again. He
loved it there. Elias has been taking swimming lessons and it showed. This was
the first time of me bringing him to a pool where he could go anywhere and do
anything and I did not have to worry about him not being able to touch or swim.
We closed the water park down and went back and crashed.
On Saturday morning we woke up and
went to a breakfast buffet at the hotel (guys trip). We then decided to do a
little geo caching. Jordan and Elias have been really into it and it was a nice
morning by lake for a little hike. Geocaching is where you use GPS coordinates
to find things that other people have hidden and leave other things, usually
trinkets of some sort behind. This
particular “cache” was off the trail a little bit and hidden behind a large rock
in a box. Inside the box was an Immaculate Heart of Mary prayer card. Elias was
sooo proud of his find that he carried it around with him for the remainder of
our trip in his pocket and showed it to anyone who would see. He is my good
little Catholic!










We then decided to go down to the
Lake Superior Maritime Visitor Center. This was a museum that had lots of cool
exhibits revolving around the history and industry of Lake Superior. Elias also
got to climb on rocks and chase seagulls by the water. We ended this excursion
with a healthy lunch from a boat down by the shore. We had deep fried cookie
dough and corn dogs (guy’s trip). We then walked around the touristy area then
it was time to go get ready for the wedding.
We all got cleaned up and ready to
go. We even all wore ties. Dan and Diane’s wedding was beautiful. It took place
in an abandoned Catholic Church that still had all the statues, stained glass
windows and Alter intact. It was nice to see a beautiful traditional Catholic
Mass in a place like that. After the wedding mass it was time for the
reception. It was a lot of fun with good food and good company. We then went
back to the Motel in time to get another round of swimming in the water park
before they closed. Elias spoke with Annie on the phone and it was about the
cutest thing I have ever seen. They really missed each other but he was excited
to tell her all about his adventures and she was excited to listen. It really
melts my heart how good of friends they are.

The next morning was our day to
leave. Elias slept the latest I have seen him sleep in a long time. We then ate
breakfast and went to the water park AGAIN for a last swim before leaving. We
checked out of our hotel and went to the Duluth Children’s Museum. I was
pleasantly surprised with the quality there. It was not very big but it was in
a cool location and had fun things for Elias to do. We got there right when
they opened and for a while were the only ones there. The staff there was great
and basically gave Elias a VIP tour and showed him all of the exhibits and
attractions. They had these weird huge puppets on display there and an event
going on where the artist that made the puppets was on site. She explained all
of the puppets to us. The museum staff then peer pressured us into attending a
puppet show with the artist and some professional puppeteers. I didn’t really
want to go but we did anyways. We stayed for about half the show. We then hit
the road.




Elias
watched Star Wars for a while then napped on the way home. It was a great trip.
It was a great way to spend some alone time with my son. We had a great time
but it was still great to come home and see Amber and the other kids again. I
hope we can go back to Duluth again with the whole family sometime.